About the Song
Released in 1964, “(The Best Part of) Breakin’ Up” by The Ronettes isn’t your typical heartbreak ballad. It’s a surprisingly upbeat exploration of the unexpected benefits of a break-up, highlighting the bittersweet joy of newfound freedom. Through Ronnie Spector’s powerful vocals and Phil Spector’s signature “Wall of Sound” production, the song transcends genres, becoming a timeless anthem for embracing independence and finding strength after a relationship ends.
The Ronettes, known for their powerful harmonies and electrifying stage presence, deliver a performance brimming with unexpected defiance in “(The Best Part of) Breakin’ Up.” Lead singer Ronnie Spector injects a playful edge into the lyrics, making the break-up sound almost exhilarating.
The lyrics paint a picture of a young woman reclaiming her independence after a stifling relationship. Lines like, “Tell me why, I wanna know / Tell me why I can’t let you go” showcase the initial struggle, the lingering emotional ties. However, the protagonist quickly embraces the freedom that comes with separation. Lines like, “Now I can go out anytime / Baby, that’s what’s on my mind” highlight the newfound sense of control and the ability to live life on her own terms.
The melody, a surprising blend of doo-wop rhythm and a driving beat, perfectly mirrors the emotional complexities of the lyrics. Uplifting piano chords and prominent handclaps create a sense of liberation and empowerment. The iconic “whoa-oh” backing vocals add a layer of playful defiance, mirroring the protagonist’s newfound strength. There’s a hint of melancholy in the undercurrent, but it’s overshadowed by the overall sense of optimism and self-discovery.
(The Best Part of) Breakin’ Up” transcends its doo-wop origins. It’s a relatable song for anyone who has ever walked away from a relationship, even if it was painful. The song captures the bittersweet joy of newfound freedom, the empowering realization that happiness can exist outside the confines of a relationship.
The enduring legacy of “(The Best Part of) Breakin’ Up” lies in its honesty and its ability to challenge conventional heartbreak narratives. It’s a reminder that break-ups can be opportunities for growth and self-discovery. The song continues to inspire and resonate with listeners across generations, serving as a sonic snapshot of a time when women were increasingly asserting their independence and finding strength in heartbreak.
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Lyrics: “(The Best Part Of) Breakin’ Up”
Baby when we break up from a quarrel or a fight
I can’t wait to have you back and hold you, oh, so tight
Tell me why, I wanna know, tell me why, is it so
That the best part of breaking up is when you’re making up
Best part of breaking up is when you’re making up
But after breaking up be sure you’re making up with meEverytime you leave I get those teardrops in my eyes
But they seem to go away when you apologize
Tell me why, I want to know, tell me why, is it so
That the best part of breaking up is when you’re making up
Best part of breaking up is when you’re making up
But after breaking up be sure you’re making up with meCome on baby,
Come on baby,
Don’t say maybe
Well it makes no difference who was wrong
Just as long as I’ll be with youBaby I’ll be lonely till you’re back where you should be
‘Cause baby I belong to you and you belong to me
Tell me why, I want to know, tell me why, is it so
That the best part of breaking up is when you’re making up
Best part of breaking up is when you’re making up
But after breaking up, be sure you’re making up with me
The best part of breaking up is when you know that you’re making up with meCome on baby,
Come on baby,
Don’t say maybe
Come on baby, woo wee baby, come on baby